How Women’s Football Changed My Life ​

Growing up, football was never my thing. ​ My dad coached football teams, and my brothers played, but I couldn’t stand it. ​ I didn’t understand the hype, and I never thought it was for me. ​ That all changed in 2022 when I stumbled across the Women’s Euros final on TV. ​ Watching that match was a turning point—it was emotional, inspiring, and felt monumental. ​ For the first time, I realized that women could achieve incredible things in football too. ​ It opened my eyes to a whole new world. ​

After that, I became hooked. ​ I started watching every Lionesses game and followed the Women’s Super League (WSL). ​As someone who loves digital art, I began creating artwork of players like Mary Earps and the Lionesses. ​ It was a way for me to connect with the sport and express my newfound passion. ​ I even lived near a women’s football team’s training ground, and one day, I decided to attend a game. ​That decision changed my life—it was the best choice I’ve ever made. ​ It wasn’t just about the football; it was about the community, the energy, and the sense of belonging. ​

For me, football became more than just a sport. ​ I’ve struggled with a bladder condition, anxiety, depression, and being autistic, which made leaving the house a challenge. ​ But football gave me a reason to step out of my comfort zone. ​ It introduced me to a second family—a community where everyone looks out for each other, from the players to the manager to the fans. ​ I feel supported, loved, and accepted for who I am, and that’s something I never thought I’d find. ​

My journey with women’s football took an exciting turn when I saw an ad for writers for a men’s team programme. ​ I wondered if they’d accept artwork instead, so I reached out. ​ To my surprise, the media officer told me the women’s team had already seen my art online and loved it! ​ They asked if I’d design the cover art for their programme, and I couldn’t believe it. ​ Seeing my art displayed around the stadium was surreal, and I ended up creating every programme cover that season. ​ The support I received was incredible. ​

I am also an Arsenal Women’s fan and saw their wonderful supporters club. It lead me to look at Exeter City Women’s supporter page, ​and found out it hadn’t been active since 2020. I reached out to the previous organiser and was asked if I wanted to take it on. ​ I jumped at the chance! ​ As someone who’s autistic, I can get super passionate about things, and running the supporters club gave me a purpose. ​ It’s a way to support the team, connect with fans, and make a difference in my own time. ​

One of the best parts of being involved in women’s football is the people. ​ I’ve met so many amazing individuals—supporters, players’ families, and friends. ​ It’s like being part of one big family where everyone cares for each other. ​ Whether it’s car-sharing to games, flyering to promote matches, or just cheering together, the sense of community is so special. ​

I’ve even had the chance to design T-shirts and flags for the team, which was such an honor. ​ Some people are surprised to learn that I don’t make money from these designs, but for me, it’s about supporting the team. ​Women’s football, especially in the lower tiers, is underfunded, and every little bit helps. ​ It’s so important to support the entire football pyramid, not just the top leagues. ​

Being part of this community has changed my life. ​ It’s given me confidence, purpose, and a place where I can truly be myself. ​Women’s football clubs are vital for girls and women because they provide equal opportunities to play the sports they love. ​Growing up, football wasn’t an option for me—it was always netball or basketball. ​ But every girl deserves the chance to play football if she wants to. ​ Even if you don’t want to play, knowing that the option exists is empowering. ​

Women have always been part of sports, and we’re not going anywhere. ​ If you’re thinking about getting involved in football or any sport, go for it! It might just change your life like it did mine. ​